Kids, the biggest change in life after marriage. The arrival of kids changes everything in the dynamics of marriage and life. First the marriage is about two people, with kids it becomes an extension of their selves. The birth of kids adds the responsibility, patience and lots of unconditional love in life.
The two people who, till then are only husband and wife become parents. The decision to have kids these days can be planned by the couple unlike good old days, when having kids was equivalent to gift of god which shouldn’t be refused etc. These days’ uniformed decisions can be taken by the couple as per their convenience. Earlier, families used to be big and lots of people around to take care of the children. There never used to be much difference between own siblings and cousins.
A big step in the direction of growth is having kids. Kids are our teachers, parents and moral police all rolled into one. They observe and learn a lot from us. They teach us to be selfless and amaze us with our own strengths and weaknesses which we might not even have been aware of. Kids make life worthwhile. After a tiring day when we come back home and they rush in our arms, all the tensions melt. Nothing seems more important than the pure joy they give us with.