🧠 Why Do We Remember What We Wish to Forget?

Isn’t it strange — the way we forget the birthdays of those who are close, yet remember the special dates of people who are no longer in our lives?

No matter how much time has passed or how much we’ve tried to move on, some names, moments, and memories just don’t leave. They stay — uninvited — tucked in the corners of our heart.

Maybe it’s emotional investment.
Maybe it’s unresolved closure.
Or maybe it’s just hope — a small, quiet hope that someday, things might make sense again.

There are people we held in the highest regard — friendships we believed were for life. And when those bonds break with no goodbye, no reason, no conversation… it scars.

Because silence doesn’t always bring peace.
Sometimes, silence is just a louder kind of pain.

I truly believe one thing: Differences deserve dialogue.
Walking away without a word isn’t strength — it’s avoidance. And any relationship that ends without communication leaves questions that never quite get answered.

I wish more people understood the power of talking.
Talking doesn’t always fix everything, but it often prevents things from breaking completely.

💬 Note:

Memories are not weakness. They’re reminders of how deeply we’ve felt, how sincerely we’ve cared. But healing begins not when others return — it begins when we learn to stop waiting.