Saturday, April 30, 2016

Z for Zen April A-Z Challenge 2016

Zen like means to be able to relax and let go of things which are beyond our control. There's only this much we can do sometimes we have to leave certain things to life/ destiny/God.

It's not easy to have such a habit. The only person I can think of is Gautam Buddha and M S Dhoni. In awe of such people who are able to let go of the worries and surrender themselves. Not a quality everyone can boast of. Maybe that is what makes them special and others ordinary.

I feel we all are work in progress, we all have some qualities, some we need to learn. Life is a journey and we all need to keep learning new things to reinvent/ develop our own self. Not get depressed, remain calm, never have high expectations, have a great set of friends, leave some good things for the next generation, spread joy and always keep smiling.

With this post the A-Z Challenge comes to an end. Thanks to all the wonderful people who visited this space.

Friday, April 29, 2016

Yours Truly A-Z April 2016 Challenge


I know we are all so busy, living busy lives, that we rarely connect. Doesn't mean that i don't value you. I value you more now, but now i take you granted a little (Although i know it's wrong), i assume you to be always around me, taking care of me, listening to me and trying to understand me.

I know we speak a lot but we still never say what we truly mean to each other, always ready to defend ourselves saying its implied. In this materialistic world, and technology savvy era how much ever we move forward, words still mean a lot. Saying simple things matter a lot. So even though we send similes/ emoticons, more than them simple words and gestures touch us more.

Love is such a beautiful thing in life, and being in love the best. I know you keep pestering me, pushing me a little more to do my best. There are times I ignore your voice because i feel if I listen would get more confused. Really foolish to ignore because you are the one who gives clarity on them. Just want to say I believe you and have learnt to listen and thank you for all the wonderful things in life. Thank you for being there for me, for teaching me to be grounded and humble. Thank you for blessing me with so much love and positivity.

Yours Truly


Thursday, April 28, 2016

X for Xcellence

To be able to excel in our field of work is everyone's dream. I am always in awe of people who show that dedication and commitment regularly and religiously. To be able to do that for many years, with the same intensity is something i dream to do. 

Excellence is simply the ability to outdo yourself. All of us has it in us to become excellent in our own way, just that we should compete with our self and set realistic benchmarks.Self belief is very important for excelling in any field. Also the ability to keep reinventing and learning is. 

We all have inspirations around us. Just that we need to see them, For some one to not learn much to read and write to becoming small businesswomen, for me that is excellence. She competed with her own self, set her own rules, fought all odd situations and tried to do the best with what life had to offer her.

For me, this is also Xcellence.

Wednesday, April 27, 2016

W for Wish A-Z April 2016

I wish:

You always be around me, supporting and loving.

I wish:
I always have the patience to deal and wait for the right things.

I wish:

I don't get irritated and throw a tantrum on you.

I wish:

To be able to give unconditionally and be able to forgive.

I wish:

To be able to forget the hurt, the silence you imposed on me.

I wish:

To be able to trust you again.

I wish:

I could Undo certain memories,decisions and statements made.

Tuesday, April 26, 2016

V for Virtual A-Z April Challenge 2016

These days most of us celebrate festivals/birthdays/ anniversaries virtually. With technology developing, and life being fast paced and challenging we all practically have no time to even enjoy the little joys of life.

Earlier, companies used to give holidays for all important festivals,like Dusshera, Diwali, Raksha Bandan etc.With MNC's and BPO's taking over where we are required to provide a 24/7 support we are slowly forgetting the old traditions which once we used to enjoy and look forward to. Sadly, now most of us don't have time. If it goes like this, maybe our future generation would not even know of them.

In a nutshell,celebrate our festivals, culture and spread joy among people. It's not always we get a chance to be happy and smiling.

Monday, April 25, 2016

Understanding A-Z April 2016

Another important aspect of any good relationship.  Being in the same page helps. Understanding also means not misunderstanding the person.  There are times when we feel the person we trust the most might not be able to react the way we expect them to during certain situations, that's where understanding becomes important.

Good times doesn't require understanding difficult times test your understanding of people and situations. Understanding does not always mean agreeing to what you say always, it also means the ability to oppose if wrong, take a stand when needed and be respected for the difference of opinion. It takes long time to build a good relation, double efforts to maintain them and just a few misunderstandings and arguments to break them. Understanding someone is not a one sided thing, for any relation to be successful both people involved must understand and support each other.

Saturday, April 23, 2016

T for trust A-Z Challenge April 2016

Trust, the most important thing in any relationship. The base of any relations. If you see its easy to build as all it takes is honesty and the willingness to give yourself completely in a relation. Sadly it's easier said than done.

Trust takes years to build and moments to break. We take a lot of time as we invest a lot emotionally when we trust someone, make them a part of our life,  and when that trust breaks it means a part of life is broken,  which may take years to heal or maybe never heal.

For me trust is sacred,  as it means we are ready to take that leap of faith in someone. Maintaining trust in any relationship never easy. They are always tested by time,  sometimes it even creates misunderstanding, but if you trust and have faith, just give that relation another  chance. And always try to not break anyone's trust for its not only the trust you break but also their ability to have trust in someone is broken.