Losing Interest

I have always wondered why it is so difficult to be focused and determined about something we really want to do and not been able to.I always start to do things with a lot of interest and passion,but somehow in the middle of it i frizzle out,not that i dnt want to do it anymore but somehow i lose the motivation and the zeal to do it for a long time.I am an extremist,its either i keep doing or i dont do at all,one thing which i feel must be changed.I want to see myself as a more balanced person.

When i started blogging,i was very determined to pen my thoughts regularly.But that has not been done.somehow in the middle i lost track and completely went off track after that.Not that i didnt observe anything worth mentioning,but i lost the interest to keep the continuation.

Now that i want to restart and continue,i request you all to come forward with suggestions and ideas to keep going and being motivated.

Toyworld

Today went out with friends to Commercial Street.Saw a nice toy shop.Stocked with array of kids stuff.With Rudra even i was tempted seeing so many choices. :) Seeing them reminded me of my childhood,wherein we were given limited access to shops and choosing things.

  

There were very limited toys like Dolls and Kitchen set for girls and cars and trains for boys.Now when i have to buy a birthday gift ( i have to regularly visit these shops thanks to Rudras network of friends...;) i am always amazed and confused with the choices offered.

Even Birthday party decoration items have an exclusive shop!! U just need to tell the theme for ex: Mickey/barbie/vinie the pooh etc and they would provide all the required things for the birthday of the theme projected..Our birthday parties were more simple and was all about enjoying,nowadays its more about the status and prestige.

Maybe the Next Gen kids will not even know the meaning of "Being Simple" as Simple is complicated now.

Misunderstanding

It takes ages to make a relation,a friend..but only an incident to spoil it all.I m sure everyone must have faced this at some point of time and agree that it hurts to lose someone for some silly reason.

Whats more difficult is the feeling which never leaves you..a feeling which says we could have spoken and sorted out the issue.R our egos so big and Important that we let go off our great friends for them?????? I don t think so.

There s a difference between ego and self respect, a difference which is thin and easily misused.Not been able to talk most of the times is because of ego,but we name it self respect.It takes time to maintain a relation,nurture and care for it.So many virtual ways then too we lose people because of simple reasons.

Maybe with time we find new friends who share the same thoughts and wavelength,but is it worth losing a friend just because we did not share same opinions at some point of time??

New Start

Have been missing form the blogging for quite some time now,but when i was going through other blogs was surprised by their level of commitments and interest in sharing their thoughts.I actually envy people who invest,rather use their time smartly and try to make maximum use of the time.Somehow i have not been able to do it maybe i lack the enthusiasm or im plain lazy.

But nevertheless,today i decided that i am going to get rid off this habit and gonna be more clear and active in penning my thoughts.

Any ideas to keep me motivated????????

A Post

After Ages,Maybe i have touched my blog..:)...Can say its plain laziness to think of what to think and write....there r so many activities going on around me,but i guess i was blank/preoccupied to notice them or even notice them(nw what kept me busy so mush is another big question),leave alone pen my thoughts on them....

Nothing actually kept me so bc that i wasnt here in my blog...just that i was being lazy to sit back and think....have learnt somethings in this "break"(if i may call it so),made some good friends,lost some due to silly reasons...i know and agree that the time frame is too less to make n break....but i also believe sometimes its just an act/incident that changes ur point of view forever.........

Was busy with cooking and reading..the first one being a relatively new one...;)..I have never been a avid learner there till some months back..but now that i have found one i waste no time in learning and experimenting...Sometimes they come out great,sometimes they flop..but i continue trying... for perfection...hope someday i achieve that...

Have read some really nice books written by some well known authors...they continue to surprise me with their thoughts and point of views...how they write so close to life and so beautifully still remains a mystery to me...Hats off to them for their patience and wonderful presentations...

I guess continuity also has a great role to play in their writings...their passion to write also deserves a salute...i wish i can also learn to keep going without being lazy..and taking such long breaks without any valid reason ;)

Take Care

Kavi

PS:Special thanks to my brothers Raju and Ravi for asking me to write...love u both..thanks for the motivation..

the D word

Long Long time i have updated my blog......just was nt up to pen down thoughts..more to do with my laziness.....;)

Today Aamirs Satyameva Jayate made me sit and wonder what kind of lives do those women lead???? Dowry.....means money and luxury... for that people are ready to kill??????????????Kill a girl who is married to their son.....who is somebody's blood n flesh....

The girl who has been her parents apple of the eye...whom they have brought up sacrificing equally if not more,educated....how could the boy whom the girl trusts and gets married hoping that he wld protect her all through leave her in a situation like this?????????????? Is money and greed more than a life???????

Im more surprised when inlaws who have a daughter also commit such a disgusting act of torturing a girl and her family for money....do they forget they have a daughter themselves??????? what if the same thing happens to their daughter??????

Girls in today's age are equally qualified and hardworking...they multitask and handle so many responsibilities at the same time.....if they cant be respected at least let them live their lives.....nobody has the right to take somebody's life or pressurize them to die for no fault of theirs....

Girls stand up for what is right..ur lives too precious to be lost to satisfy somebody else s greed.

Valentines Day

With Valentines Day just round the corner,was wondering how to make it special and memorable as usual....

I luv celebrating the days...although i also believe the fact that if u have to xpress ur love n feelings for anyone..u can do that any day...coz what matters is ur feelings and not the day wen u express it....

But all said and done, we all love being pampered and given attention at the end of the day..its human to feel great when someone tell u how much i love u and pamper u with all the attention..but Valentines day is also not all about couples always....it can be about spending time with ur parents/friends/kids and make them a part of the fun...

Love is a great feeling...and the fact that someone loving u unconditionally for what u r makes it more special...so enjoy this beautiful day by spreading smiles and making people happy...take time to spend with parents/friends..catch up with them and tell them how special they r for you.....i m sure they would be happy and would remember this Valentines Day and celebrations forever...

Life s too short to wait for "the right time" make sure u express your thoughts and feelings....and spread lots of love....its actually priceless....

Happy Valentines Day to all the beautiful people....always be happy and smile....:)